Catra Lowell

ENGLISH ONLY

-Please do not message me privately for no reason. If all you want is to say hi, or compliment something, just do that in nearby chat or in group chat. IM is for when you want to actually have a conversation or roleplay with me.
-Please know I am not into funny guys, and not overly fond of jokes, especially if you joking at my expense, fast way to get muted. And please have more then "Hi, how are you?" up your sleeve if you intend to approach me. If that is all you have then you really should not be messaging people privately
AND if you are offended by me having rules about approaching me, then do NOT message me to tell me that.
I am not here to please you, nor to be pleased by you

ROLEPLAYER/ EMOTER (have to be at same place to RP, no long distance IM only stuff)
I am immerse roleplayer
IM is OOC unless agreed to roleplay in IM beforehand

NOT into BDSM or abusive love/sex - consider me vanilla. I only want nice and cozy
I'm neither dominant nor submissive. I'm just boring. Maybe I switch, whatever, my focus is not BDSM, I am NOT a BDSM person
I am lesbian by choice

Groups shows what you are into on SL, and if that is rape and/or womenhate, then I am likely to avoid you
Being in only sex groups is also a bad look, as well as hiding all your groups, also bad

Consent, effort and selflessness is hot
Selfishness, rape, and laziness is NOT hot

Women want respect, girls want attention, what do I want? BOTH
I am not chill, or relaxing. If you only want to relax, and you put "no drama" in you profile, well, then don't come to me, go find a bot to hang with

I do not want to be an option, I want to be prioritized! I do not fuck, I make love, and to make love to me means to love me, to the point of being obsessed with me, that is when I want you, when you want only me and you stay away from everyone else, then I am yours. But the moment you are with others you are no longer attractive to me

I am not looking for sex
that does not mean I do not do sex
but when I do, I want semi-para roleplay emotes, and with feelings/emotions
I am not into quickies, just poseballing, or one-liners = this will bore me
I like quality over quantity, and I like effort. Lazyness and Selfisness is huge turn offs

I do not do friends with benefits, as that only benefits males
I am really not into the polyamarous thing, open relationships, harems, collectors, sluts and players- just NOPE
I am pan/demi sexual and monogamous

People that put that they hate drama in their profiles, you know they are the ones creating all the drama, by being rude, lying and cheating. It's not drama they hate, its consequences they hate, and they think writing "no drama" is a get out of guilt free card. It's not

Quotes:
what's the point in being in a relationship if you going to act like you're single?
never start anything you cant finish
do not make promises you can't keep
don't tease if you don't intend to please
Quality over quantity
Action Speaks Louder Then Words
If you never sacrifice anything, you never gain anything