Catra

ENGLISH ONLY !!!

Not on SL for sex (does not mean I don't do it on occasion) But if you come to SL just for sex yourself, we are not likely to hit it off. And for the record when I do it, its with semi-para erotic roleplay, if you come at me with one liners and argues about using just one hand and watching poses, I will probably make fun of you or suggest you go to an AFK sim. I'm high maintenance, I prefer quality over quantity. And quite frankly sex with myself is way better then sex with a guy who hardly tries

I am really not into funny guys. Guys who message me randomly to make fun at my expense and think they are being charming, flirting and funny, when they are really not

Don't bother lying, own up to what you do, don't go around doing one thing and then denying it >.> you just make it way worse, owning up to your stuff is a better look, even if what you do is bad, but if its so bad you can't own up to it, then you really should stop doing it anyway, because it means you know it is bad, and you are ashamed of it

Do not message me and expect me to be the one carrying the conversation. Whoever message first is responsible for that

If the way you approach would upset in RL, you can be pretty sure it will upset on SL as well

Biggest turn off's?
that would be all the stuff guys are into, as in: Sex with strangers. Casual sex, sex without feelings/emotions, no roleplay, one liners, just watching poses. Voice. writing with just 1 hand. Logging off when they cum, skipping aftercare/cuddles. Cheating and sex with others when you have a partner. Getting it without effort, without deserving it.
I like being rewarded and giving reward, but seems like most men likes to just get the sex for "free" without earning it, is why they willing to pay for escorts, since they not willing to work for it the other way.

even if relationship is open, its a major turn off to me
If you are with a woman, you stick with that woman, and if you fuck others, you are one of the least sexy men on the planet, at least in my eyes

NOT into BDSM or abusive love/sex

I am NOT into chill stoner attitude people who brag about how lazy they are

Fine I have no humor = WHATEVER

ROLEPLAYER/ EMOTER (have to be at same place to RP, no long distance IM only stuff)
I am immerse roleplayer
IM is OOC unless agreed to roleplay in IM beforehand

Groups shows what you are into on SL. You might lie about who you are when we chat, and lie in your profile about being a nice guy, but your groups show everyone who you really are, and what kind of activities you seek out on SL. And if you hide all your groups, then that is sucpicious

Women want respect, girls want attention, what do I want? BOTH
I do not want to be an option, I want to be prioritized! I do not fuck, I make love, and to make love to me means to love me, to the point of being obsessed with me, that is when I want you, when you want only me and you stay away from everyone else, then I am yours. But the moment you are with others you are no longer attractive to me

Quotes:
what's the point in being in a relationship if you going to act like you're single?
never start anything you cant finish
do not make promises you can't keep
don't tease if you don't intend to please
Quality over quantity
Action Speaks Louder Then Words
If you never sacrifice anything, you never gain anything
don't bother lying, it is just a waste of time and energy