Tikitiki Pooh

VALKYRIE IS DEAD TO ME.

I refuse to roleplay with VALKYRIE. I have my own reasons for wanting nothing to do with them, and I am not interested in arguing about it. If you are part of VALKYRIE, keep your distance. There will be zero traffic from me or Donnie to their sim. Don't test me, don't try to change my mind, and don't expect me to care if you are offended by my choice.

DIE MAD ABOUT IT.

People can call my relationship with Donnie controlling, toxic, too strict, or whatever else makes them feel better. Honestly, I don't care. You are free to have your opinion, and I am free to completely ignore it.

A lot of people in SL love the idea of having a strict Mistress until that Mistress actually says NO. Everyone wants to be owned until they are expected to follow rules. Everyone wants to call themselves a slave until they are held responsible for their actions. Then suddenly the excuses start, the collar comes off, and they are looking for someone new who will give them what they want.

WE ARE NOT PLAYING HOUSE.

I am not a poser, and Donnie is not a fake Mistress. We do not pretend to be something for attention and then switch it off when it becomes inconvenient. We met honestly in Second Life, and what started there became something real. We met face-to-face in real life, spent real time together, and built a relationship outside the screen.

THE REALITY OF MY MISTRESS.

Donnie is strict as hell, and that is exactly what I chose. She expects honesty, loyalty, respect, and accountability. If she asks me something, she expects the truth. If she tells me something, I listen. If she makes a decision, I respect it. I don't need a Mistress who acts strict only when it is fun. I chose one who actually means what she says.

People love saying they want a strong Domme, but many really mean they want someone who will pretend to be in charge while still letting them do whatever they want. That is not Donnie. She pays attention, she remembers things, and she does not tolerate bullshit or people trying to go around her.

I don't need secret friendships, side relationships, flirting, or people trying to get between me and my Mistress. I already belong to someone, and I am happy with where I am.

The funny part is that the people who complain about relationships like ours are often the same people surrounded by drama, lies, cheating, hidden partners, and broken promises. Meanwhile, my Mistress knows exactly who I am, where I stand, and what I mean to her. That is more than enough for me.

At the end of the day, I am proud to belong to Donnie. I am proud to wear her collar, proud of the trust between us, and proud that she expects more from me than most people expect from themselves.

Not everyone will understand our relationship.

Good.

You don't have to.

It is ours, not yours.