Niamh
If you rp as a slave, you cannot tell a Free what to do and expect to live long, slaves were property to be discarded and/or cared for as seen fit by their owners. Topping from the bottom, being emasculating and manipulative, that is your choice to play your role that way, but don't expect everyone to rp sunshine and rainbows about it. No death, is not a reasonable limit in Gorean rp. Perma death is your choice. Also, blaming others in ooc ims about YOUR poor character choices, not a good look. Negotiating rp in ooc? Defeats the purpose of rp. Go be a pre-scripted NPC somewhere else.